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District 13 (2004)
IMDB rating: 7.00
Plot: In the near future, the worst ghettos of Paris, France are literally walled off and among the worst is District B13. Controlled by the ruthless crime lord, Taha, a young righteous punk named Leito is determined to bring him down. When the boss retaliates by kidnapping his sister, Lola, a rescue attempt by Leito is destroyed by betrayal that gets him arrested and Lola kept in the clutches in Taha. Six months later, a crackerjack undercover cop named Damien is given a urgent mission: a neutron bomb has been stolen by Taha in District B13 which has an automatic timer function engaged and set to detonate in less than 24 hours. Now with time running out, Damien and Leito must work together to find and stop the bomb, but there is far more to this crisis than any of the field players realize.
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Directors: Morel Pierre
Actors: Raffaelli Cyril,Belle David,D’Amario Tony,Naceri Bibi,Chattot Francois,Woirion Nicolas,Olivier Patrick,Guesmi Samir,Gadner Jerome,Boucekhine Tarik,Jean Gregory,Zavatta Warren,Dorol Dominique,Berthillot Ludovic,Action,Comedy,Sci-Fi,
Please give me some guidance???? Imagine If you truly believed that your partners life was in danger.?
Prior to this question, about a half hour ago i posted this:(sorry that this is so long)please help though
my girlfriend and i live in the los angeles district. on tuesday nights she has an acting class that runs from 7 pm to 11 pm in a bad area……. especially if she is getting out that late.
before she went to the class i told ehr to call me RIGHT when she got out so that i could know that she is safe.
IT IS NOW 11 40
many things come to mind.
1.is she in danger???? This is the most important of course, i dont know what to do. should i call her again. she is supposed to get out at 11 and it has been 40 minutes. i am so dam worried. what would you do??
2. did she stay longer or did the class go out longer ??? there is no reason for her not to call me by now if she is okay. if she were to stay longer, she should of text me.
3. did she not see my text and just go home?? if this were the case, she already knows how i feel about her being in that area at this time of night, and it is just selfish and careless for her to not let me know, and let me worry like this.
4. (of course this goes through my mind) did she end up talking to some guy through out the 4 hour class, bond, and then go out or something??? she has never given me a reason to believe that she would do this. if she were to call me should i go about asking her this???
it is now 11 46. what should i do? if she calls me and is okay, what should i say??
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She called me at 12 13
it turned out that her class did end up staying an extra hour, which i can believe because it was very loud as if she were still in the class.
when she called YES i was upset/pissed off.
and she got defensive and said, i dont need this from you right now. im sorry, all the girls left their bags in the back.
she was NOT genuinely sorry, which is not what i want. all i wanted was for her to acknowledge the fact that i was so worried for her.i had every reason to worry like i did, if you are familiar with los angeles you may understand. im just really upset. if my girlfriend were to worry like that about me i would of felt horrible and would of apologized for having her feel like that, and would promise to avoid letting it happen again.
All my girlfriend said was, "why are you mad at me?" and at first she got defensive and said "why do you ahve to know where i am at all times"
i feel like i stress to much about this, and that she does not deserve my time. how would you feel if you were scared to death and believed your partners life was in danger, and they responded to you like this??
This goes both ways. One, you worry too much. She is an adult. Understand that before you came into her life she had no one to answer to. One hour of delay, especially if its a class, can happen. That you kept on calling could have been an interruption. So you are at work, or in a class, in the middle of something and because you receive a call or text you have to drop everything to run and pick up? Sometimes it is not possible. What ever happened to the time where no cell phones existed? You would have had to wait. One hour, and to deal with someone in overdrive that way can be annoying. That once you got her on the phone, for you to act annoyed is out of line. Relief could have been an appropriate reaction.
I understand your concern, but maybe next time, you could give it a bit of more time before going all crazy about it.
On the other hand, since you dont say, it might be that she is not empathic to your concern. Maybe if you explain your worry you guys can find a middle ground.
| Nov 18, 2009
I would be frustrated and upset too. She’s not being understanding or seeing the situation from your point of view at all.
It sounds like, from her response ("Why do you have to know where I am at all times?") that she might be feeling smothered by you. I don’t know what the rest of your relationship is like, but in this particular situation I think your concern is justifiable.
I think you two need to sit down and talk. Explain to her (calmly, without getting defensive) why you were so concerned. Tell her that you trust her and want her to be free to enjoy her life, but when she’s walking alone late at night in a bad area, you worry because you care about her. You just want a simple phone call to know she’s alright. Let her talk too. Try not to get defensive. Be honest and show her that you care for her, and try and avoid placing any blame (no finger pointing.)
I hope that helps. Good luck!
Fiamma | Nov 18, 2009
If it was my girlfriend, sister, mother or any of the women in my life they would not be going into that area at night without me. And if they were somehow able to convince me that I should let them go by themselves and they didn’t call by the agreed upon time I would be down there looking for them, not sitting at home whining about why they haven’t called.
It may not be PC but maybe you should grow a pair and start acting like a man!
drgnrdr451 | Nov 18, 2009
Brandon | Jan 31, 2010
